It may seem like I’m a sarcastic asshole 24/7, but I’m actually only a sarcastic asshole 18/7 because at night I actually have feelings.
Personally its not my deal. Im a completely different person online than offline. Offline I contain myself and just completely holdback. So it would be extremely awkward for me. There are sites that promote hook ups and so forth, even sites to help you find someone to cheat on your wife with, so this idea isnt new. People actually do it and im sure a lot of people have made it work out for them.
If you do feel like you want to do this and you find someone to do it with, go for it. Personally I would first skype with them, you know would hate to be catfished considering I dont think Nev would be willing to make a show out of that and they might act differently. I know ive talked to people for awhile through text and when I skyped them I just found them completely annoying and they started sayingthings I disagreed with. Would have been super bad in person.
Id say its easiest to commuicate kinks and limits online so I would say talk about that so it goes smoothly in person.
And dont rush into it. Talk to the person for awhile. Even if it is just a hook up, this is online. You never know what youll get. At least if you talk for awhile if they are inconsistent or start to show strange traits you can back out before they have your personal information.
Oh and have a plan on where you want to hook up. I mean I wouldnt want them in my house and I wouldnt want to go to their house. So just find a placw you are comfortable with and if its somewhere you need to pay then talk that out too. Maybe just because bring some sort of weapon, be it pepper spray or a knife and try and stash it close to you at all time. Again its the internet.
But thats all if you feel comfortable with this person. I do not recommend doing this. I am probably the most paranoid person ever though. So really try and check this person out. I know before I get close to people I look them up, I know I know its super crazy but I dont want to be lied too or talking to somw freaky morherfucker. But you put your shit out there so you know people are going to find it.
Just be super careful. Maybe go on a meet up before you guys get freaky. Idk. Just be safe. And yeah the whole getting tested thing is cool. But if anything condoms are great. 10/10 safe sex is great ans fantastic in every case. You bring your own condoms jusy in case they dont have condoms and yeah always have a back up plan.
Has anyone had a online hook up thingy work? Or do you guys have anything to add to my extremely paranoid rant?
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